Randy,
Where wearing the gel-coat off from beaching goes, Kimo is talking over a period of years, not just in a single trip.
I you're looking to keep all scratches off the bow, then beaching may not be for you. However, It's not like it is going to destroy the gel-coat. It will dull it a bit. Just carefully choose a sandy place and stay away from a rocky bottom.
When I first got my 26X, I would not beach it, for fear of ruining the finish. after a year or so I started beaching her whenever I could (beats spinning around on an anchor any day). The same goes for my 26D also. I beach it all the time.
When I sold my X-boat, the entire hull shine like glass, including the bow. ( hey, kinda funny.... my X-boat is my X boat)
Getting off the beach:
Sometimes we hit the beach in an overzealous manner, thinking that we want to be sure and not start floating in the middle of the night. If the bow is afloat, any waves coming in will make the boat bounce up and down on the beach. It feels like it's beating the boat to pieces and keeps you awake all night (these boats are tougher than they look though, I've never had any damage from this).
Anyway, there you are with half the hull up on the beach, 'cause the beach was a lot softer than it looked, when you came in. (I've had her dry all the up to the dagger board a time or two)
Next morning, you can't get her off the darned beach and think you'll be stuck forever. Well, all you have to do is put the outboard in reverse, crank up the throttle and work the wheel, or tiller back and forth. Your boat will, eventually wallow itself back off the beach.
Best Breezes
Steve K.
Mac 26D "Three Sheets"