WOW, thanks for the supportive responses, and the helpful pointers.... some of them really make sense. "... aim for the inside pier-finger" would have done it, exactly the compensation i needed, but it seems suicidal to aim at something so menacing.

Everything needs to be done just right, and with enough momentum to carry it thru, but any mistakes will be unrecoverable.

i have the Mercury controls, not too bad, can shift from forward to reverse pretty quick, thru neutral, and the boat responds fast, if i can keep cool and in control - not getting confused etc. You all know that there is a lag in response, and that rudder position does not become obvious until you goose the motor and go scooting off whichever way.
BTW, the dock is on a dead end, with menacing shallows at the shore side, especially in winter pool, and the fairway is the last approaches to the launch ramp at the head of the creek which feeds and forms the cove of the marina. Go up in there, and it's shallow water, tight, and motorboats launching periodically, to contend with. No way to do a drive-by. When I blew the first approach, i barely backed out without ramming pontoon boats. I felt like a balloon in a basket of forks. HOW ABOUT that docking software, to enter MacParameters along with fins, wind, current, horsepower, prop, load, dockside heckling, and hull color. ? Maybe like a car race game, with explosions and screeching ripping sound effects ? I bet blue hulls have a bit more side-slip resistance, and they need it to avoid getting those WHITE scratches. OR black scratches, with white outlines.
That idea of putting crossed lines to catch the boat's bow is pretty good, but the other boat sharing my slip would not get along with it.....
If i had a two-finger slip all to myself, i would just line both sides with enough vinyl bumpers, old mattresses and cotton balls to crash into at enough speed to make the boat really steer fine. The faster the more accurately it can track, if it can do the sudden decelleration into a 24' chute. Maybe i need an arrestor hook and aircraft carrier-type catch line.
You guys have developed nerves of steel, i guess i will get there, but maybe Moe could crunch the numbers which balance the cost of hull repairs ( in terms of my labor-time ) for however long it takes me to learn the pilotage, vs. just docking at the $6/day high-price spread.