Tim,
You may have a problem with that trailer. It may have been adapted from another boat, or the trailer builder may not have understood the boat. That aluminum cross member appears to be inadequate to carry the load. You very well may have broken it loading, which may save you a future disaster down the road. Hopefully you have a good trailer company nearby that can help you straighten it out.
The factory trailer uses the steel axle tube to carry the center of the boat. Additionally, there are cheek bunks that transfer some of the boat weight to the i-beams directly. The rear cross member of the trailer is aluminum (3x3x3/16)- again with cheek bunks that transfer weight out to the I beams. These subtle differences in bunk arrangements can make significant differences in how the various members are loaded.
Could you measure the square tube that failed and the thickness? How many other support points are holding the boat up? The factory trailer has the V-bunk at the front (directly on the I-beams), a cross-bunk at the axle, and a cross bunk at the rear of the I-beams. If I was a betting man, I'd bet the bulk of the boat weight is carried by the axle bunk.
