Thank you all for your replies and helpful tips or comments!
Since my starting this thread and my first ever post in this forum, we decided to buy the boat - despite the single soft spot. I'm finally now a proud (co-)owner of a 2012

! We're now getting her ready for our first trip. We want to fix the soft spot on the deck as soon as we decided on the best method, and at the moment I am contemplating to fix this soft spot (on the port side next to the mast) using one of the following options:
1) Carefully cutting out the area to then install a stable hatch. This would need to be a stable product so that we can stand on it, and when it is open it would serve as an extra vent. After cutting, but prior to installation we could insert pieces of glass mats and the correct products to bring in the required strengths. Downside: It's a big change, and possibly a bigger risk than one of the other options.
2) Drill as few holes as possible and fill them with pieces of fiberglass mats and epoxy. There is certainly no guarantee that this will work, but I and also a local fibreglass repairer believes that it could work. This option would be far less dramatic than option 1) or any of the options below.
3) Carefully cutting out the soft spot area and then rebuild it (seems very difficult to do, since it's both skid and non-skid surface and very visible). As shown in my first post above, the cracks are in the area next to the mast step (smooth surface = no non-skid), but the soft spot is under the non-skid, so I wonder if it's possible at all to fix this in a way that it looks good or at least aesthetically "OK". Any tips or experience?
4) Cut out an area from underneath, and determine the best way forward. Ideally there is a way to build enough strength below the deck. To do this, I wonder if anyone has experience with removing (at least partially) the moulded ceiling, which seems to be nearly impossible to remove, because of the way the boat has built. I cut could out a small area to have a look. It could be sealed later with a cover, mirror or a light. Any tips or experience, if that approach could work to fix a soft spot on the

?
I found this nice 91-page free manual which be helpful (also for others and other repairs):
http://www.westsystem.com.au/files/fibr ... enance.pdf
If anyone has comments or a better idea, please share it. All ideas will be read and considered.
Thanks again to everyone for reading and sharing your tips and thoughts!