kadet is correct on this
And adding a backstay to a fractional rig only effects the top few feet of the mast anyway. My D boat has a backstay (from the factory) and having added an adjustable purchase to it, I can tell you that it can overpower the top few feet of the mast and easily bend it.
In the case of losing another stay, a backstay would insure destruction of the section in most cases.
As long as you keep the rig in good tune and inspect attachments regularly (including all cable eyes) these boats are proven to take more than the average sailor can. You have to remember...... these boats have light rigs because threy are verey light boats. When you start beeifing one thing (like adding shrouds and stays or oversizing wire for them) it only moves the force to whatever the weakest link is.
The M has a heavier mast section than the X and the Classics. There is nothing to worry about. Lots of boats are without backstays nowadays. And with the transom configuration on the X/M boats, where are you going to attach it
The X boat has a backstay on one side of the transom and it doesn't work. (only works on one tack and is loose on the other) So now you need a split or double back stay (I highly recommend a split backstay on all X boats to center the pull on the mast top)
I haven't done it in my D boat yet, (been in the 9s in knots though) but I did make double digit speeds on my X boat several times, running with main and 150 headsail. It's a blast

. The X boat was great going dead downwind. You need good balance and having two sails up contributes to that. You'll be busy and it's probably best to have some crew to help handle the sheets and tiller/wheel, but I have done it single handed in some pretty crazy winds.
I remember one time, when I was new at it, I was rocking along with my hair on fire in about 30knt wind and it suddenly occurred to me I was running out of lake and I didn't really know how to stop this thing

I found that doing a 180 can get the spreaders wet, if not done correctly

Guess I turned the wrong way and when the boom came across I thought it was going to break off or rip the mast right off the boat. The only harm done was to my pride
BTW, You can sail these boats with only a head sail, (in moderate conditions)
BUT fractional rigs are not made to sail on head sail alone and I would say (and I'm no expert by any means) that sailing in high winds with only a head sail is the easiest way to damage or lose your rig. On the other hand, sailing dead downwind with only a main can present control issues when wind and waves get crazy. Again, balance is the key.
Bottom line is............ These boats are tougher than what most of us could ever take and are very forgiving when the skipper does make a mistake. And remember, they have been engineered by people who are engineers and even if they look minimal in some ways, they are more than capable for the task. (and today's tort law helps insure that

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One more thing......
AS kadet also said, the forestay is the lightest wire on the boat. This is also for a reason and I wouldn't increase it's size. There is nothing wrong with tying one end of your spinnaker halyard to the bow pulpit for insurance.
As I said.... I'm no expert..... JMHO
Best Breezes,
Steve K.