One other thought....
Steel studs - and bolts for that matter - are kind of like springs, and they literally streeeeeetch as you tighten them down.
Now, if you apply the
proper amount of torque - not too much, not too little - then you can use that "stretch" as a way of holding the bits tight and preventing untimely disasembly, since it will apply constant pressure to the frictional surfaces on the flanges of the inside of nut or bolt head and stop any potential rotation.
Having said that, have you ever yanked on a spring
really hard and seen it suddenly lose all it's elasticity? Right, we all have. Well, overtighten a bolt or stud and that's just what you've got. And just like that spring, once it's pulled over it's limits, no amount of continued pulling, no matter how hard (tight) you go, will get that 'spring' tension back again... it just keeps getting longer and longer until it finally just snaps.
So.... if you overtorque a bolt or stud,
even one time, you have just left yourself wide open for failure because you've removed the 'spring' from the steel, and you'll never get it back again with
that fastener! That baby's 'boing' is toast, gone just as surely as time itself, never to return again. No spring, no anti-rotational tension... no anti-rotational tension and the nuts unwind nicely... and, as a great Haiku poet once said,
Wheel falls off
at +80kph.
Exciting
Getting back to lubrication, the manufacturer is usually the best guide... if they say use lube whilst torquing, use 5w machine oil or whatever they recommend. If they say nothing, like most, then they mean 'clean and dry' and you need to either do as the nice man who wrote that book says, or you can undertake some very fancy calculations involving the coefficient of friction to determine the proper adjusted torque loading figure. Not being terribly good at math, I usually spare myself the aggro and just torque dry. However, if you simply can't resist lubing with a slippery lube like anti-sieze, and then you torque to the manufacturer's original specs, my money says you just sprung your stud's fragile virginity, and all the vgra-xd on God's pretty Earth ain't gettin' it back.
Now, the correct fix for those 'sprung' studs is to press them all out - a pretty easy job, with a good puller or press, some patience, several bottles of a suitable brewed beverage, a large box of your son's 'Sesame Street' glow-in-the-dark Band-Aids, and a broad vocabulary of the vulgar tongue - and then re-install a known-new set of studs and nuts, clean and dry like momma made'em. (If you're like me, you might want to use a touch of Loctite, but that's optional, of course.)
Cross-tighten the assembly to the proper torque using a known accurate torque wrench, and then label the fender with the proper torque number... and you might also add the proper tyre pressure figure as well. Briefly loosen and re-torque each one after 50 miles (do
not do this if you used Loctite - just check them instead), and then check them every 100-200 miles thereafter.