The material you are reading called it a "fairlead" instead of a "pulley" because the simplest setup would use a fairlead on the jib (or genoa) car instead of a pulley. From a practical standpoint the pulley is doing the same job as the fairlead in that its only purpose is to change the direction of the pull. There is no mechanical advantage in the pulley vs a fairlead in the same position. The pulley has less friction which makes adjusting the jib (or genoa) easier.
The "X" does not come with a traveller and installing one is difficult. The best location for it would cut your cockpit in two and require you to climb over it. Again, the performance increase would be minimal and (in my opinion) inconvenience would be unreasonable. It would help you point a little higher (sail more into the wind) but even that would not outweigh having it in the way all the time (in my opinion).
The jib car runs on a track on the cabin top. The genoa track uses the same cars but is mounted on the gunwales (top edge of the outside walls of the boat) in the cockpit. You would use one or the other; never both at the same time (unless you are Highlander
I agree that someone has confused "twist" with "draft". Twist occurs in the edge of the sail; draft is in the big, sort of flat middle of the sail.
If you don't have telltales on your sails it would be helpful to add them. You can make them yourself or buy them ready-made. In general, they should be pointing backwards and they should be doing the same thing on both sides of the sail. They are showing you how the wind is flowing across and exiting your sail. Reading about them never made sense to me. I had to go out and see (and feel) how they worked.
I think a lot of the theory would start to "click" if you get out on the water and see how it all works together. Start on a nice day (7-10 knots), raise the sails and see how it feels.



